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Veteran’s Care at VA Inspires Wife to Write a Song

Wife with Veteran patient

Shirley Crecelius sings “Come on America” to her husband and Army Veteran Paul Crecelius during his stay in the Hospice and Palliative Care Unit of the Jack C. Montgomery VA Medical Center.

By Tiffani Mathews, Public Affairs Intern
Wednesday, July 3, 2019

“High upon a hilltop in Muskogee, Oklahoma, there’s an old VA hospital where the flag is waving still.” That is the first line of the song “Come on America” that Shirley Crecelius wrote 25 years ago when her husband, Army Veteran Paul Crecelius was in the Intensive Care Unit at the Jack. C Montgomery VA Medical Center.

Recently, Paul was admitted to the VA Medical Center once again and this time Shirley decided to share the song with those who inspired it as a “thank you.” Sitting at Paul’s bedside in his hospital room, she holds his hand as she retells the events that inspired her to write the song.

It was merely a sore throat that brought Paul to the VA more than two decades ago, but what he found out was that he had Laryngeal Cancer, a rare cancer in which malignant cells grow in the larynx, or voice box, for which he would have to have emergency surgery to remove.

While he was recovering in the Intensive Care Unit, he received news that his mother had died.

“The whole situation was just heart-wrenching,” said Shirley. “He was already devastated that he was going to have a hole in his neck and then to find out his mother passed on top of that, it was just so painful for him.”

It was during that time Shirley was inspired to write, “Come on America”, a song that she had not shared with hospital staff until recently.

“Everyone here has taken such good care of him,” she said. “I am so very grateful for the way the staff treats Veterans with such dignity and respect. If we need something, we get it with a smile. Everyone is so warm and compassionate. I remember looking up to this hospital and I could see the top of the building above the trees with the flag waving. I thought about Paul’s experience and the other Veterans and I just started singing. The next thing I knew, I had written this song,” she said, pointing to a piece of lined notebook paper in the song book resting open on her lap.

It would be a difficult recovery for Paul but, after successfully healing from his surgery, he was able to speak with the use of a small plastic device inserted into the hole in his throat.

Paul, who served proudly in the 82nd Airborne as a Paratrooper and mechanic from 1967-1970, loved the time he spent serving his country and, after his tour, he had become a truck driver serving the people of our country in a different way.

“He is such a hard worker,” said Shirley. “He worked for 24 years straight and never took a sick day after his surgery. He did have some limitations after his laryngectomy, but his company loved him, and they had a lot of faith in him.”

Wife with Veteran patient

Army Veteran Paul Crecelius poses for a photo with wife Shirley Crecelius, who recently shared a song she wrote that was inspired by the care her husband received at with the Jack C. Montgomery VA Medical Center.

Over the years Paul had been entrusted to haul items such as the mobile Vietnam Wall, Wreaths Across America, Veteran headstones and materials to the Gulf coast during Hurricane Katrina.

“When his company found out he had to retire because he was sick, they had such a big blowout for him. They always called him the old dinosaur,” Shirley said with a laugh as a smile spread across Paul’s face.

Last December, Paul and Shirley’s life once again changed after Paul came to the hospital with what he believed was a kidney stone. They were shocked when they found out that he was in heart and kidney failure due to cancer, which has consumed most of his organs because before the kidney discomfort he had no other symptoms or concern for his health.

Paul endured emergency surgery in the private sector on December 11, 2018 and then a full surgery to remove several organs on Christmas Eve. Afterwards, he requested to be transported back to the Jack C. Montgomery VA Medical Center to continue his care.

“It is hard to explain, but Paul just feels a comfort and assurance here at the VA,” said Shirley. “We see so many familiar faces and we know that the staff and administration here have an affinity for Veterans and understand their needs. We love this place and to us it symbolizes humanity because the people here are the way we should all be.”

Shirley and Paul, whose anniversary is August 11, have been married over 30 years. The couple says they are counting each day as a blessing and trusting in their faith to bring them through these tough times.

Upon request, she sang the song in Paul’s hospital room of the Palliative Care Unit while he watched her in admiration. Shirley says she does not consider herself a singer, but she is proud of her song writing and says Paul loves to hear her sing.

“Paul is a phenomenal man,” Shirley says with a smile as she squeezes his hand. “He has always encouraged me. He is gentle and kind and really is my best friend. We laugh together, and we cry together. I would just like to say that I have been proud to be part of his life,” she said, wiping tears from her eyes. “I ask God to let us have more time because I don’t want it to be over anytime soon, but I tell Paul that I would have rather been with him for the time that we’ve had than with anybody else.”

Paul responded with a smile as he squeezed Shirley’s hand, mouthing the words “I love you,” to which Shirley responds, “I know you do, and I love you, I really do.”

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